There are a lot of lesbian-run restaurants in Bangkok. While the clientele is usually mixed, some tend to become lesbian hang-out places, especially at night.

Zup Zip

674 Soi 101, Lad Prao Road. 081-734-2759

A restaurant/fun hangout place which caters to older toms & dees. They also have really yummy Chinese/Thai food. The owner is super nice, and everyone is friendly. Worth the hike up there! (Near the old Don Muang Airport).

Eat Me

Soi Pipat 2 (off Soi Convent)

A friendly gay boy restaurant with art and yummy food. The drinks are tasty altho, sadly, they only fill the martini glass 3/4 of the way like elsewhere in Thailand.

The Lobby

Soi Aree (Paholyothin Soi 7)

Lesbian owned restaurant and bar on soi aree.

At the Time

81 Soi Aree (Paholyothin Soi 7), 617-1133.

Apparently a 'friendly' restaurant. Please let me know if it's still there.