Clubs & Bars
There are not many lesbian bars in Bangkok. Note that being Thailand, any bar you go into is lesbian-friendly. There are tons of places mentioned on other websites online — note they are all no longer open! Also note that boys are NOT allowed inside, even if they go with you, even if they're gay -- doesn't matter. Girls only.

Zeta
29/67-69 Soi Soonvijai (RCA)
Rama 9 road. Bangkok. 02-203-0994
Zeta opened in April 2006 at RCA, and it's girls only every night of the week! Friendly staff, girls, and live music (if that's your thing). On the weekends it's very crowded. I recommend going after midnight on the weekends when everyone is drunk and friendly.
She's Club
check their website (or search on facebook) for their address
New place - I have not been... Will update soon!
NOTE: E-fun, Shela, and Lesla are all closed.
Gay boy bars (but women are welcome)
The Balcony
86-88 Silom Soi 4, 02-235-5891
A gay boy's bar. Sometimes lesbians show up. balconypub.com
Telephone
Silom Soi 4, 02-234-3279
Another large gay boy bar on Silom Soi 4, across from The Balcony. Also fun. telephonepub.com
DJ Station
8/6-8 Silom Soi 2
another gay boy bar. dj-station.com
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